People say goodbye to friends for different reasons; they are too busy to pencil them in, they don’t believe in the decisions they are making, they’ve grown apart, or they’re moving away.
We said goodbye to some friends lastnight who are moving to California. It was bittersweet. When Dolan was born, three of my closest friends had babies and this is one of them.
I don’t like saying goodbye so we said see you later. It’s always hard to let friends go, especially ones that are going through the same things that you are.
I am not angry, and I can’t be, we moved away with the intention of not moving back, so we’ve been there. There’s a point in life where you need a change of pace, a change of direction, or change in environment. You should do everything that you want to do in life, because you only get one chance at it.
I don’t believe in making the wrong decisions. I believe in taking chances and sometimes risks to ensure that everyone is happy and are living their lives to the fullest.
I would hate to be 10 years down the road from now and wonder, what if? I would rather chance it now and find out the outcome rather than wasting time pondering about it.
Good friends are hard to come by so
say goodbye to them if you have to, just make sure you are doing what’s best for you and your loved ones. If you love them let them go and if they come back their yours!